An In Depth Look Into Tongue Kissing
An In Depth Look Into Tongue Kissing
Tongue kissing is a sensual style of kiss that is used between couples who have deep affection for one another. This type of kiss isn’t one to be rushed into or taken lightly. Some will be ready for it right away while some may be hesitant to placed their tongue into the mouth of someone they haven’t known but for a minute. Whatever the case me be in your specific situation, just know that if you try tongue kissing your partner for the first time and get the feel of rejection that doesn’t mean that they aren’t interested. They may feel as though it’s too soon for this type of affection or perhaps your technique isn’t up to standard.
Since tongue kissing can be viewed as a natural, rhythmic technique it should and will eventually come natural to you and your partner. Some experience kissers get it right immediately while some others may take a little while. What you should learn to master tongue kissing is learning what not to do.
1. Don’t be reluctant to try tongue kissing; especially if you have already had a few of the traditional pecking kisses with your make. You shouldn’t rush into it and make sure your partner is relaxed and has a comfortable body position. Trying to tongue kiss or any other type of kiss can be quickly rejected by a person who is rigid and not relaxed.
2. Biting is a big no no. The tongue is a sensory organ and as such is very delicate to taste, temperature and yes, pain. Biting one’s tongue is almost a guarantee that you want be tongue kissing them for a very long time to come.
3. It may be hard to do if you’re a regular smoker but to make a good tongue kissing impression you should try to abstain from smoking as much as possible leading up to the kiss. If you have access to breath fresheners it may be imperative that you used them to leave a good lasting impression.
4. Saliva is a natural occurrence in the mouth but when it comes to tongue kissing excessive spit is just plain gross. I’m sure you wouldn’t want someone to spit on you and your partner probably doesn’t want you to spit in them. Try drinking less fluids leading up to the kiss or eating something that will leave your mouth a little drier than usual.
5. Last but not least don’t forget to rid your mouth of any breath fresheners before tongue kissing. You may think this is a common sense approach but in the heat of the moment many people have forgotten to finish their breath mints or spit out their gum. Nothing makes a person tense up more than to have someone trying to stick there tongue in their mouth while chewing gum or sucking on breath mints.
The last point above advises to remove all breath mints and gum from the mouth before trying tongue kissing but there is a technique that can be used further down the road that involves an object in the mouth. It is called the candy kiss and is an advanced technique shared between couples who know and trust one another. This type of tongue kissing is very sensual and involves the couple kissing while passing a piece of candy back and forth to each other. Again this is an advanced tongue kissing technique and in no way should be tried with someone you are kissing for the first time.
You have gained some great insight to tongue kissing and have learned valuable techniques by way of what not to do when kissing your partner. Just remember to relax, take your time and get to know your partner and you’ll soon be on your way to becoming a skillful tongue kissing expert.
